Decoding the Smile
Don’t Say Cheese: Just don’t. Please.
Smiling can be tricky to manage when crafting a portrait session. For some, it comes effortlessly, while for others, it can appear unconvincing simply because, culturally, we’re expected to smile whenever in front of a camera. Whether or not to smile in a formal portrait session really depends on the mood and context we’re trying to convey. Most importantly, the individual being photographed. A smile can bring warmth, approachability, and authenticity to a portrait, but sometimes, a more neutral or introspective expression reveals greater depth and emotional nuance.
Smiling works beautifully in lifestyle, family, or branding portraits that aim to connect, feel open, or convey joy. A natural, unforced smile — especially one that reaches the eyes — can feel instantly genuine. But forced smiles or over-rehearsed grins can look stiff and undermine the emotional truth of an image. That’s where the photographer’s skill in direction and timing comes into play — drawing out real expressions through conversation, humor, or simply giving the subject space to relax into the moment.
On the other hand, not smiling can evoke strength, mystery, elegance, or vulnerability. In fine art portraits, fashion photography, or more conceptual work, a neutral or serious expression can shift focus to the eyes, posture, or environment, letting the viewer interpret emotion more freely. It’s inviting curiosity rather than giving away the story at first glance.
Ultimately, it comes down to what the image is meant to say. There’s no rule — just intention. The best portraits are those where the subject feels seen and authentic, whether smiling or not.
For an in-depth take on the dynamics of smiling — and the effect on portraits — check out Westport, Connecticut photographer Nataliya Lalor’s astute thoughts on the topic. —JH
